I’ve been pretty slack about participating in the Daily Post’s weekly photo challenges, but this week, their theme was family. I don’t think any family is perfect. Mine has its issues, but one thing we excel at is loving each other. And in that way, we are perfect. I count my blessings each time we visit, and cry a little each time we leave. But I figure it’s best this way; I might cry more if I lived nearer, and for less endearing reasons π
So here’s a peek at my family. I took the camera to Ohio at Christmas, but indoor lighting and chaotic family time don’t lend themselves to terrific photos. Certainly not everyone is pictured, but I didn’t leave anyone out intentionally! (Because, seriously, that would be cutting out a lot of people who I love!)
You’ve all met Tony, my husband of 13+ years. We’ve got at least one more year; I’d hate to end things on unlucky 13 π You’ve seen photos of him, but he doesn’t love when I take snap his picture. Thus…his hands, playing his new cello. It’s a rented cello, and he’s dedicating a year to learn it. I’m impressed and inspired. I can’t even play the cowbell.
Our kids. Sebastian and Dominique, 13+ years. They’re brother and sister from a litter of Bengal cats we got when we first moved to Miami. And Petey, alternately warming his face and buns by the fire.
Some of the rest. Parents and extra parents, brother, sister, niece and nephews. At this point, we’ve got quite a collection of nieces and nephews, but that whole lighting thing…
Instead of telling you about each of the photos, I’ll just share a few things I captured that make me so glad I cart the camera around even when it seems bulky and unnecessary.
Here’s to my imperfect, perfect family. May we all be so blessed, even if fleetingly or in memories.
Love those shots of your parents’ gift exchange π All the rest are great, too! Is that Phil drinking syrup?!? He might like sugar even more than me.
He is absolutely, resolutely, definitely (defiantly…haha! Can’t stop myself here) drinking that maple syrup. We get it for him at that stand on OMP, and his main mode of consumption is drinking straight from the jug π
A perfect family would be so boring, not to mention setting a bar way too high. A family you like is as perfect as I would want. And – there’s a lot to be said for distance. So much less drama.
It’s funny that you mention drama, Carol. I never the the impression of drama about your family, but then you probably don’t get that impression of mine, either. Regardless, your sentiment about “a family you like” is spot-on. And I am quite fond of mine π
I have no words Heather…this is exactly what PERFECT look like π God Bless!
I know you understand a perfectly imperfect family π
π π true that!
This was an excellent post Heather and wonderful shoots.
Thank you, Edith. It can be tough sharing photos of family – don’t want anyone to feel slighted in any way! Nature is much more forgiving that way π
Great pictures and nice happy looking people. Although I think the first set look a little highly strung. π
Graham, you see right through people π
Thank you for your kind words, though!
LOL π
Really enjoyed these. Especially the cello shots. Creative! π
Thanks Dawn! For some reason, I thought you’d enjoy those π
Oh how I enjoyed looking at these family shots–and reading your thoughts about your perfect imperfect family. (Or was that imperfect perfect and does the order of the words make it mean something slightly different?) I am wondering if there EVER is a perfect perfect family. Because without the imperfect factored in…it’s simply not real. I don’t think.
I’m not sure the order matters, but I am sure that being honest does. And I’d rather have an imperfect family that I am honest about and love than a made-up perfect family that I pretend about.
Sometimes I worry because it feels like I don’t share the imperfections of my family (on blog, that is) and people will think I have a made-up perfect family. But I don’t like to write anything negative about them. Usually save that for one-on-one sharing. Ooops, hope none of them read this comment. You see, I’m a wimp. Or just trying to be kind. Or somewhere in between.
I think everyone comes to a blog with the understanding that you don’t get to meet the whole person – you never can, because you’re living your own existence. But since I made it a point to keep things happy, I don’t want people to feel like I’m in pretend land. I’m not. But there is such a thing as over-sharing. If I ever thought that my readers held the answers (when I know there are none for me…folks who want to change will do it on their own, and no amount of my efforts will change things otherwise), I would share and ask opinions. Instead, it would just be airing dirty laundry to no effect. And I’m also a wimp/trying to be kind.
Wisdom, dear Heather…